Ever said “I don’t trust my ex”? Then this post is for you…

Numbers are just numbers—or so we tell ourselves. But when you're going through a divorce, every figure can feel like it carries the weight of your life story.

There’s space between believing it shouldn’t be happening and feeling good about your future.

You’re probably not going to like this either…

Have you ever watched your ex drop off the kids and thought to yourself, "It's not fair"?

I have. Too many times to count.

Actually it’s good.

Hang with me here.

If you've said or thought these words, you're not alone. As a divorce coach, I’m hearing this worry frequently these days - and it makes sense. When the world feels like a dumpster fire, adding "divorce" to your to-do list can seem overwhelming.

I had one of those "aha" moments this morning. While getting coached (yes, coaches get coached too!) my coach dropped this wisdom…

You don’t have to go through a battle in court to get divorced. Collaborative Divorce offers a team-support option that keeps you out of court and focused on solutions that work best for both of you.

Divorce is about much more than completing a legal process. In coaching, we work on supporting all 9 Key Pieces to a Smooth Divorce.

A few considerations… and what to do if your co-parent doesn’t agree.

Getting through a divorce requires a lot of emotional support— both internal & external.

It's possible to grow your business while you go through a divorce, as long as you stay out of overwhelm (in both areas!).

The power of one simply belief.

Collecting evidence to make your opponent look bad works in political campaigns, not in co-parenting!

Maybe keeping track of practice schedules, homework assignments, and changes to music lessons hasn’t been your responsibility… until now.

Imagine how your kid(s) as adults will reflect on your divorce & co-parenting.

Using numbers to find clarity and confidence.

Getting your first answers.

What if the differences between co-parenting households were not just tolerable but ACTUALLY beneficial to our children?